Unobumba c

Ngoku siza kwenza eyokuqala kwimilo engqukuva, kwaye imilo engqukuva inika uninzi lwabafundi ingxaki enkulu. Unobumba c, obaluleke kakhulu kuba uninzi loonobumba lwenziwe ngokudibanisa unobumba i nonobumba c, unzima. Luhlobo oluthile olungaqhelekanga lukanobumba i. Ukuba ucinga ngonobumba i oqhubeke esiya, njengeliza elwandle eliqhekekayo liwe phantsi, nguye lowo. Okanye ufana nonobumba i onyibilike ebushushwini bekhandlela.

Ngoko nantsi indlela esimenza ngayo. Uqala ngendlela obunokuqala ngayo ukuba ubusenza nawuphi na omnye unobumba: nyuka kancinci, ude uye phezulu. Kodwa ke uqhubeke, kwaye kufuneka uqhubeke kancinci ngaphaya kunokuba ulindele. Ngoko uyamgoba ajikeleze, umgobe ehle, njengentloko yentonga; inegophe elihle. Emva koko, ngaphandle kokuphakamisa usiba lwakho, ubuya kumgca lowo unye, ugobe ujikeleze, kakuhle ngokungqukuva, ude uye ezantsi. Kwaye ke xa ufika ezantsi, utsibela phezulu uphume. Kwaye eso sisidibanisi sakho kunobumba olandelayo.

Ngoku, yintoni enokungahambi kakuhle apha? Izinto ezimbalwa. Ukuba akumgobi ngokwaneleyo unobumba c phezulu, njengeliza eliqhekeka lisiwa, angakhangeleka njengonobumba i. Kwaye kunjalo nangonobumba wakho i: ukuba akumenzi athi ngqo unobumba i, angakhangeleka njengonobumba c. Lowo ngumkhwa woonobumba i. Ngamanye amaxesha oonobumba i baba negophe, kwaye kufuneka ulwe naloo nto. Kwaye kufuneka ulwe ukuze unobumba wakho c atyebe kakuhle, abe ngqukuva. Kufuneka abe ngqukuva njengolwandle, ngqukuva njengeqanda, ngqukuva njengebhola ekhatywayo. Ngqukuva.

Ngoko unyuka ngomgca othe ngqo, uze uwugobe. Le yinxalenye enzima. Umgca wakho othe ngqo uguquka ube ligophe, kwaye uyaqhekeka. Ufika emgceni uze uqhekeke uwe ezantsi, kwaye uhla kancinci ngaphaya kunokuba ulindele. Hayi kude kakhulu, kuba ngoko uya kwenza unobumba o. Kufuneka ube naso eso sithuba. Emva koko ubuya kumgca lowo unye (ndiyaziphinda), ugobe ujikeleze uye ezantsi, uze utsibele phambili. Kwaye lowo ngunobumba c.

Musa ukumenza abe mxinwa kakhulu. Akamele abhitye, ngokungathi ulambile. Kufuneka akhangeleke ngathi utye isidlo esimnandi. Lowo ngunobumba wakho c.

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